Men's and women’s bodies are of a multi-orgasmic nature!
There is quite a lot of controversy these days regarding the benefits of frequent ejaculation vs. semen retention for men. (authentictantra.com)
Society is goal-oriented when it comes down to sexuality, and this means that “orgasm production” is paramount according to our mainstream criteria. One of the main reasons why porn is a 100 billion dollars thriving industry. However, there is a downside, a steep downside, as time eventually tames sexual appeal. When the fantasy fades away. And quite often this may encourage cheating and promiscuity if the intellectual bond isn’t strong enough. Bodies are traded (this for that), exposing lust as material envy. Over time partners view one another as less desirable, also because mates or lovers begin to reveal each other’s flaws. Sexual passion is commonly draining because society teaches that lovers must be sexual matches. But too often, tensions arise in a relationship because the woman doesn’t like “having sex” but expects “real lovemaking.” The conscious element in sexuality is merely absent. X-rated movies are so misguiding in that sense.
So what is the alternative?
An organic bond is not generated by “sexual activity” but by the mind. The upside of “semen retention” is that it allows men to master their physical reactions and choose quality over quantity. Sexual energy flow is used for a lasting and sensual seduction as intercourse is regarded as a moment of cosmic celebration. There is no rush to get “there,” and bodies move to their own rhythm. Such a man knows that any woman is as multi-orgasmic as he is. As a matter of fact, “semen retention” brings about the end of the conflict between genders since a woman who is sexually fulfilled becomes much less possessive. And that means much less drama — if no more drama at all.
Semen retention improves your sex life.
For men, ejaculation and orgasm are two different things. Mastering “semen retention” helps achieve full-body, multiple orgasms, with each one rolling into the next. It has even been reported that such orgasms can last several minutes for the man. With the right partner, such men can develop a unique and faithful bond.
Serial monogamy is a widespread template. People move from a monogamous relationship to the next, generally without too much questioning themselves. Even though many people would agree that sexuality is essential, dysfunctional sexual relationships abound, mainly because they cannot express their own cosmic bond. The average time frame of intercourse is between 5 and 15 minutes. This means that many people aren’t happy about their sex lives. Fast food sex, although exciting, will appear disappointing in the long run.
Sexual gratification usually takes longer for a woman to achieve, so women need men who can wait for them to be ready. There lies the advantage of practicing “semen retention.”
Nature is very clever: once in the bedroom, it is the man who has to dedicate himself to a woman’s needs so that he can surrender himself to his own multi-orgasmic nature!
Long story short, men and women alike are multi-orgasmic: this is a secret well hidden and not taught in our goal-oriented society. Emotional happiness is found by learning about one’s body and overcoming one’s urges.
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